I don't know if this is just human nature, or some people or what? I don't know if I'm just blinded and don't see that I do it too...But I really hate it when people box people, and then when confronted with evidence that contradicts their view continue to believe that about them anyway... I know there are people I have made assumptions about, but also know that when I realised I was wrong it normally hit me and in sometimes would feel guilty enough to actually go and tell that person that I had a different view and realised I was wrong...
On a normal day I would say I tend to put a comma at the end of the sentence when getting to know someone never a full stop because you can spend your lifetime learning more about the person. I don't even fully know myself! How can you claim to know and define me...
Part 2 and the reason for this venting. Is the hurt that comes with the people defining or boxing being the people you love. If they arent doing this, well they never allow me to clarify or contradict or correct them. And whether they are saying what they think or not their way of handling me shows an opinion of me as their way of handling others differs...
Anyway No idea how to resolve this and trying not to be upset about it...Trying to point it out brings more arguments and then more guilt... And no solutions...Not if there is a fullstop at the end of the sentence..
I guess the bottom line is to find my acceptance and selfworth and needs in Christ...And Also allow him to resolve the situations that occur with others...
Humble pie maybe?
